If it is, is it truly love?
Is it necessary? Are transactions the foundation?
Story: Rabbi Vogel’s speech at son’s ufruff.
He repeated his father’s speech (or was it Rabbi Shochet his father-in-law?) about giving your spouse a “blank check”
I quoted Dennis. To make sure the check doesn’t bounce, you need to make deposits in the account.
The deposits are daily acts of kindness.
Mrs Shochet, mother-in-law, came over and commented about how beautiful that thought was.